Barbora Bobulova: il segreto della felicità
“Per me la libertà individuale è molto importante… Sono separato da molti anni e Vivo da solo da molti anni, Sono felicemente single, non per scelta ma perché è andata così. Credo nell’amore e nel matrimonio, ma il matrimonio non dovrebbe avvenire all’inizio della relazione ma come conclusione, quando si è veramente convinti. Mi vedo sposa forse a 60/70 anni…. Ho due figlie adolescenti che si muovono un po’ come due elefanti, ma due elefanti simpatici, andiamo d’accordo, litighiamo, li sgrido”.
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Non potevo andare in guerra con qualcuno con cui avevo figli
“Non sto crescendo le mie figlie da sola… il padre è molto presente. Ci sono fine settimana in cui mangiamo insieme, cerchiamo di affrontare tutti i problemi insieme. Siamo rimasti uniti a livello familiare. Penso che sia molto importante per i bambini. Non potrei fare la guerra a una persona con cui ho avuto figli e con cui ho condiviso qualcosa di così bello come avere figli. Per me è incomprensibile vedere le lotte che si verificano durante le separazioni. Per i bambini ogni separazione è un trauma, lo è stato anche per le mie figlie, ma diventa meno duro se lo si affronta insieme, cercando di ferire il meno possibile l’altro e accettando che il rapporto così com’è non può più funzionare e quella separazione non è sempre un fallimento. Nell’amore devi essere felice altrimenti non puoi chiamarlo amore”.
testo raccolto da Laura Rio
